If it doesn’t, men prefer to keep silent. Women always views conversations as a way of sharing their emotions. They talk about what they want to tell until they feel better. For women, communication itself is the purpose.
Topics men care for often appear uninteresting or too serious for women. They talk about football, finance news or refugees in Middle East, while women are much more interested in movie stars, cosmetics, fashions or a newly opened shopping centre. Besides, men usually stay away form personal problems, but women don't. Women like to tell emotional stories, which are the topics men try to avoid. So finding common interests is essential to a successful conversation between men and women. Differences are also significant if we analyze the behavior between the two sexes. Men are independent seekers, they take “self-reliant” seriously. They always try to solve problems by themselves, and often refuse helps when they are really in trouble, for accepting helps means they are not independent enough as a man. Women show a much more cooperative spirit. They call for help whenever they want, sometimes ever when not necessary at all. Men are usually the leader in a group. They make decisions and are unlikely give up though there is little chance to success. While women often show glorious wisdom to simplify a complicated issue by their innate intuition while men are struggling to solve it. In most countries, men still play a relatively more important role in government, corporations, universities and other "important" departments. Men occupy most "good" professions and have higher incomes. Some brilliant women have also shown their excellent capability to run multinational corporations or international organizations. In Iceland, Norway, or some South Asia countries women presidents or premiers are leading their countries successfully. Women are different from men, so it is natural women do not have to compete with men in every field.
Women can do much better than men in many fields, and a lot of famine jobs are getting more and more respected and well-paid. Great differences between men and women, of course, will exist forever. What we should learn is how to bridge the gap between the two sexes. The essential thing we should do, I think, is communication.
“什么女人想要什么？”，弗洛伊德，德国心理学家，一旦承认，是一个很大的问题，他不能回答，可能有类似的问题混淆了我们大多数人来说，似乎不太可能解码或简化的技术进步。男女之间存在很大差距进行了讨论，怀疑和科学家和几千年社会学家研究，但其中一些已经回答好。为了了解异性实在是对我们辛勤工作。男人和女人在生理上各有不同，在许多方面。
男人是高大，强壮和侵略性，而妇女身体差，和精神上亲密。但有人认为，这是一个错误的标签前的生物差异，女性的弱势性别，因为，实际上，女性平均活7年的时间比男性，根据西方国家的一些调查。这主要是因为妇女通常会更健康的生活方式，他们在压力下表现更耐力和适应性。男人和女人同样聪明按照一切形式的智商测试，但显着不同形式的相互如果你如何思考和行动的研究。男人总是说出他们想要直接，他们猜测妇女的话的含义。这是一个男人的伟大任务等问题的正确理解为“你累吗？”或：“我太胖了？”这可能由于他们采取不同的谈话目的。男人视为一种工具进行了交谈。如果这有助于解决一个问题，它是值得的。如果没有，男人宁愿保持沉默。女人总是看作是分享自己的情绪的方式交谈。他们谈论他们想告诉直到他们感觉更好。对妇女来说，交流本身就是目的。
男性健康的主题为经常出现无趣，也为妇女严重。他们谈论足球，金融新闻或中东的难民，而妇女则更多的电影明星，化妆品，时装或新开张的购物中心感兴趣。此外，男性通常远离形式的个人问题，但妇女没有。妇女要告诉情感故事，这是男人的话题尽量避免。因此，寻求共同利益，是必不可少的男子和妇女之间的对话取得成功。差异也很大，如果我们分析了两性之间的行为。男人是独立人士，他们采取“自力更生”严重。他们总是尽量自己解决问题，往往拒绝帮助时，麻烦真的接受，有利于意味着它们不是独立作为一个男人不够。妇女表现出合作精神得多。他们呼吁帮助他们想要时，有时在没有任何必要。男人通常是在一组组长。他们作出决定，也不会放弃，但很少有成功的机会。虽然妇女往往显示光荣智慧，以简化其天生的直觉一个复杂的问题，而男性都在努力解决这个问题。在大多数国家，男子仍然在政府中发挥较为重要的作用，企业，大学和其他“重要”的部门。男子占据最“好”的行业，具有较高的收入。一些漂亮的妇女也表示了良好的运行能力，跨国公司或国际组织。在冰岛，挪威，或一些南亚国家的妇女是总统或总理领导的国家成功。妇女与男子不同，因此，这是很自然妇女没有竞争，在各个领域的男子。
妇女可以做的比在许多领域男子更好，以及饥荒，许多工作都是越来越尊重和高薪。巨大差异，男女之间，当然，是会永远存在。我们应该学习的是如何缩小两性之间的差距。最重要的事情，我们应该做的，我认为是沟通。
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